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JUSSKYIA’S 

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 Who I Am, Why I’m Here, and Why I’m Talking to You

If I’m honest, I haven’t really sat down and asked myself, “Who is Jusskyia — the woman, not the brand?” in a long time. Maybe ever. I’ve spent so many years tied to roles and responsibilities that sometimes it felt like I was whatever season demanded of me. Poochie’s daughter. Kenny’s wife. An Registered Nurse and than Jeremiah & Jordan mother. Someone people depended on. Someone handling life the best she could with whatever she had at the time.

But underneath all of that, the woman has always been the same. I’ve always been in pursuit — not of success, not of a title, but of the life God actually created me for. I’ve been that way since young, even when I didn’t have the language for it. I didn’t grow up with a blueprint. No older woman sitting me down saying, “Baby, this is how you do life. Here’s how you make a home. Here’s how you make a decision. Here’s how you listen to God.” I entered adulthood knowing I was supposed to be something, but I didn’t know how to be it.

And so I learned by living. 

Trial and error. Observation. 

Choices that made sense at the time. 

Choices that I probably wouldn’t make again. 

And a whole lot of “Lord, help me figure this out.”

But even through all of that, God has always been the center of my awareness. I thank Him for little things people don’t even think about. A splinter, a headache, a moment of kindness from a stranger. I see Him in everything, and I mean that literally.

So when I say “Who is the woman?” 

She’s a child of God first. 

She’s someone who pays attention — to life, to people, to process. 

She’s someone who loves gardening, painting, learning, talking, thinking. 

She’s someone who genuinely wants her life to be useful to somebody else.

And that’s exactly why I created this blog.

For a long time, I wished I had an older woman to talk to — not to control me, not to tell me what to do, but to give me perspective, to help me think, to show me options. I didn’t have that. I had to figure out nearly everything alone. But I always knew, even back then, that if God ever gave me the chance, I would share what I learned. Not to be admired, not to be followed, but because I know how much it would have helped me.

I believe honesty is one of the gifts God gave me. 

I don’t mind talking about what I’ve been through — good or bad —

because I know somebody else is somewhere in the middle of their own

situation wishing for a little clarity.

So what can you expect here?

Everything. 

I’m an open book, genuinely. 

I think a lot. 

I observe everything. 

I love the Word of God and how He shows up in my everyday life. 

I love talking about what I’m learning, what I’m growing, what I’m wrestling with, what I’m discovering. 

Some posts will be deep. 

Some posts will be simple. 

Some will be me laughing at myself.

 Some will be me telling the truth about a choice that didn’t go well — and what I learned from it.

I’m not trying to give you feelings, because feelings come and go. What I hope you walk away with is an experience — something that makes you think, something that shifts you even a little bit, something that points you back toward God and toward the best version of yourself.

My heart posture here is intentional. I want God to use this space however He wants, and I’m grateful He chose me to speak at all. If anything I share helps you avoid one wrong turn, or gives you clarity you didn’t have, or simply reminds you that you’re not alone in what you’re living through, then this blog is already serving its purpose.

So this is me — not the brand, not the business, just the woman. And this space is where I’ll be talking to you plainly, honestly, and openly, the same way I wish someone had talked to me.

JUSSKYIA

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